Monday, February 25, 2008

Some pictures of my vacation in Thailand

As promised, here are some of the pictures i took when i was on my vacation in Thailand =) Thailand is really very nice place to visit, really enjoyed very much the whole trip..

The famous 'Floating Market'

They sell all kinds of stuff, foods, drinks anything u can name..

Its our turn to explore the market!

No wonder they say bangkok has the worse jam... EVEN the river have traffic jam...

A pot for us guys to pee on

Handmade souvenirs like this are sold everywhere along the river

These are some pictures of many temples in the compound of the Royal Palace

Very weird looking characters like this are found all over Thailand

This is the formal Royal Palace

This is the largest teakwood mansion found in Thailand

Victory Monument

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

I'm back =)

Finally came back from Bangkok yesterday! Sawadeeka(Hello in Thai)!

The trip was amazing! Bangkok is amazing! Nice place to shop, drink, see around, hang out, I already planned to go back there very soon=) In Bangkok, they sell all kinds of stuff. In the famous flea market called Chatuchat, they have all the very cheap goods, the price was super cheap too, the cheapest T-shirt i saw was 40-60 Bath(RM4-6). Their people are so much friendlier than those people in Petaling Street..

Went to Patpok too, the famous red light district. They have all those very erotic bars, where naked girls dance on the stage, live Sex shows, demonstration of pussy tricks like ping pong, can opening etc etc... Wasnt worth to evaluate much anyway, if u guys have the chance to witness it, do it, then u'll know what becomes of our world, the corruptions and plague of our own humanity.

Miss my friends so much, I hope everyone have a very nice Chinese New Year.. Hope to hang out and club with them very soon.


Oh yeah! Love is everywhere because.... Valentine's Day is this Thursday! I would love to wish all the couples all the best in your relationship, and congratulations because you've found that special someone, its the most romantic day of the year to show them how much they meant to u. These are the few important things to do for your love ones:

1. Give your love ones a very big and tight hug!
2. Kiss them passionately!
3. Flowers and chocolate is a must..
4. Bring them to dine in a nice warmth, cozy and romantic place. If you dont want to waste money, cooking for her is extremely sexy too=) Some candles will make the dinner sexier..
5. Buy/Make them a very sentimental gift. The price is not important, the heart that counts. This gift will show how much u pay attention to her, so be very clear what to choose!
6. and most importantly tell them how much you Love them and how much they meant to you in your Life..

Gotta sleep now, will update with some pictures i took in Bangkok in the next post. Good nite everyone =)

To Bryan, Jocelyn, Rehui, Calvin, Challen, I'm finally ready, Wish me luck, I hope its not too late too, because The Hot Pursuit finally starts now!

Friday, February 8, 2008

Hello Malaysia!

I've reached Bangkok yesterday night and will be staying here until next Monday...

Starting to miss Malaysia already...

Will be posting some pictures when i have the time.

One last thing, wish everyone a very happy and a very prosperous Chinese New Year =)

Tuesday, February 5, 2008

The Seasons of Love

Many people actually give up on their relationship too soon, my favorite quote; Many people give up too soon when they fail to realize how close they are to success. This very important quote is what still keeping me going forward so hard today.

After rereading some of the topics in a book i got from a friend last time called 'Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus' by John Gray. I finally understand that I too failed to understand that Love has its own seasons too, just like our earth's climate.

The Seasons of Love


A relationship is like a garden. If it is to thrive it must be watered regularly. Special care must be given, taking into account the seasons as well as any unpredictable weather. New seeds must be sown and weeds must be pulled. Similarly, to keep the magic of love alive we must understand its seasons and nurture love's special needs.

The Springtime of Love

Falling in love is like springtime. We feel as though we will be happy forever. We cannot imagine not loving our partner. It is a time of innocence. Love seems eternal. It is a magical time when everything seems perfect and works effortlessly. Our partner seems to be the perfect fit. We effortlessly dance together in harmony and rejoice in our good fortune.

The Summer of Love

Throughout the summer of our love we realize our partner is not as perfect as we thought, and we have to work on our relationship. Not only is our partner from another planet(Men and Women are very different), but he or she is also a human who makes mistakes and is flawed in certain ways

Frustration and disappointment arise; weeds need to be uprooted and plants need extra watering under the hot sun. It is no longer easy to give love and get the love we need. We discover that we are not always happy, and we do not always feel loving. It is not our picture of love.

Many couple at this point become disillusioned. They do not want to work on a relationship. The unrealistically expect it to be spring all the time. They blame their partners and give up. They do not realize that love is not always easy; sometimes it requires hard work under a hot sun. In the summer season of love, we need to nurture our partners needs as well as ask for and get the love we need. It doesn't happen automatically.

The Autumn of Love

As a result of tending the garden during the summer, we get to harvest the results of our hard work. Fall has come. It is a golden time - rich and fulfilling. We experience a more mature love that accepts and understands our partner's imperfections as well as our own. It is a time of thanksgiving and sharing. having worked hard during summer we can relax and enjoy the love we have created.


The Winter of Love

Then the weather changes again, and winter comes. During the cold, barren months of winter, all the nature pulls back within itself. it is a time of rest, reflection, and renewal. this is a time in relationships when we experience our own unresolved pain or our shadow self. It is when our lid comes off and our painful feelings emerge. It is a time of solitary growth for love and fulfillment. It is a time of healing. This is the time when men hibernate in their caves and women sink to the bottom of their wells.

After loving and healing ourselves through the dark winter of love, then spring inevitably returns. Once again we are blessed with the feelings of hope, love and an abundance of possibilities. Based on the inned healing and soul searching of our winter journey, we are then able to open our hearts and feel the Springtime of Love again once more.

The Springtime of Love --> The Summer of Love -->The Autumn of Love --> The Winter of Love
(Do you see the Seasons of Love now?)

There is always an exception for everything.. By really try to understand the Seasons of Love, you will soon discover the pattern why sometimes your partner is so grumpy and why sometimes they are so loving. Try to understand why are they not so loving as last time.

Love requires a lot of passion and effort. Fight for what you want, this world is realistic, you dont work hard you dont get wat you want. Always remember, the word hopeless doesnt really exist until u decided its really hopeless, or when u are dead..

I wish you loving couples all the best =)

(Sources in this post are mainly from the book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus by John Gray)

Monday, February 4, 2008

世界唯一的你

I was looking at youtube, saw this really lovely, romantic and touching video which i really feel like sharing it with everyone, its a short clip about people proposing to their only one, 世界唯一的你..


Its really Loving to see people love so sweetly, i already hear some people saying they dont need anyone/another half/soul mate/girlfriend/mate/partners in their Life. To be honest, I'm sorry for you...

I always think that God gave us such a wonderful world with such wonderful people around us to meet and with such wonderful people to love and share experiences with, and most people is really using those resources they can get their hands on very efficiently, Way to go to those people who find Love in this such miserable world we are living, You have my Blessings!

(If you would listen to the song called What a wonderful world by Louis Armstrong, you'll understand what i'm trying to mean here)

I really wonder why people still always have to ask me why are u still doing all this for Her now? Why do people always ask Why? Is there really an explanation for Love?

When people dont care, they dont really wanna know anything bout that person. Nv really wanna do anything for them anymore. If u ask me honestly, Yes i still Love her, very deep right inside my heart yes, a thousand times u would ask, the answer will never change.. I'm just doing my best and what i think is required for my only one, my 世界唯一的她.

I'm not sure where does all this will lead me to, but I'm not really stupid and i know what i'm doing right now, I tried hard, but i guess I have to try harder..

To me, 她就是我世界唯一的她, and i love her with all my heart...

Sunday, February 3, 2008

Back to the Hole

A man walks into a forest to look for some sort of treasure(he called it). Before entering, his friends told him and also warned him that the thing he was looking for wasnt so precious after all. He didnt listen and cared much what other people think as he only do what his heart tells him to. His friends could only wish him well.

Walking... walking... in the quiet forest, he accidentally tripped and fell into a very deep hole somewhere inside the forest. Oh no! I'm trapped! He is totally in controlled by the hole that consumed him. Everything he do was so powerless, everything he do was so hopeless, everything he do was so limited, he felt stuck but He never give up and try hard climb back up, finally he sees light and now his out of the hole.

He returned to town where all his friends got unhappy bout what happened to him.. One of his friend even said 'dont tell me u gonna trap yourself in that hole again for the second time please'. Obviously he didnt listen to them.

This time he went back into the forest again, maybe to get stuck or to improve the situation, who knows...

That man is me....

Many people may get confused bout this post, but it is related to a experience in my Life now, so i assume only those who know what is going on with my life knows what i'm trying to deliver here.

(Updates: changed the sound of my soul, removed the dogs pictures Fuji & James Bond(will update when i have better ones), removed the facts bout this blog section too)